The Best Friend&0153; is here and I’ve been having SO much fun with her! We went to Target yesterday and I got two great new shirts AND a power puff girls beach bag (that I’m going to carry onto the plane on Friday when I go to New Orleans.) Which is another thing that is SO SO cool. I am going to New Orleans on Friday to visit my family, who I haven’t seen in 4 months, to celebrate my grandfathers 80th birthday!  I am taking the 45 min flight on Friday morning at 7:50am and coming home on Sunday night.  Last time I went home I got to see everyone, but they all had other things to do too. This way, I get to see them, and they are captive.  I am sad that my husband isn’t going.  We really couldn’t have afforded the plane ticket for him, and hes got like 50 some odd papers to grade (15 page papers he has to read through and grade) as well.  But I am sad he won’t be there. I mean, in some ways it doesn’t feel odd cause he was so rarely at things before, but at he same time, we are married now and it IS odd. I think ill have The Mr Q&0153; write a toast that I can read at the brunch.

Well I need to go and shower so that we can go shopping again today. Shes the only person that I like walking around the mall with when I have NO intention of buying anything.

oh goodness. The soap operas in my life.

there is this girl i know..lets call her Danielle...she slept with this guy...lets call him Zack. Not such a big deal. Cept that Zack has a girl he’s talking to. Zack decided to tell that girl...lets call her Monica...that he had slept with Danielle. Monica and Danielle were sort of friends before...but now Danielle is pretty sure Monica hates her. It’s not really that big of deal....Zack is apparently a playboy...and he whiffle waffles between saying he really likes Monica and saying hes not serious about her. Danielle felt bad about hurting Monica in the begining...because she was under the impression that their relationship wasn’t serious. She found out afterward that it “was.” But at the same time - Danielle refuses to feel guilty about her actions. It takes two to Tango and she wasn’t dancing alone in the dark. Danielle realizes that she has screwed any relationship that was in the works with Monica - and that saddens her, but what can she do?

It so much easier to forgive the guy who was tempted than to forgive the girl who did the tempting, isn’t it?  We left those looks, and the attempts to make people jealous back in high school. Danielle isn’t looking to fall in love with Zack - or even a relationship - she doesn’t want him anymore. She got what she wanted, and so did he - apparently.