The three songs I have been listening to the most right now have been Rob Thomas, I don’t want to be lonely no more, Joan Jett I hate myself for loving you, and finally Adam Sandler Steve Polychronopolis. It seems to be a theme...and yet I don’t know why...lol. Happy FFAF my sweet. 

Woohoo, my first time to post a guest blog! I see how there have been suggestions made to talk about music, lalala. I do love music, but there is something else I love more. Here is how I came to the topic at hand for this little bloggy adventure:

I was speaking to a guy on IM for the first time. After about 10 minutes of the standard “how are you? what are you up to?” kind of conversation he busts out a little confession. He tells me that for him to be sexually turned on it is almost completely necessary for the woman to be wearing a diaper. I try to act calm and understanding so he then takes it upon himself to elaborate on the specific things turns him on about it. Have you ever been down the yellow river? (sorry for the random Ladies Man reference)

Ew. I am by no means a prude when it comes to sex, but this was just odd to me. This got me thinking about fetishes in general. Oddly enough I don’t believe that I have a “fetish”. There are a ton of different things that turn me on, some of them I’ve done and some I haven’t (yet), but none of them I obsess over. But I do finding myself increasingly attracted to the BDSM world.

It seems like almost anything can be a fetish. Hell, look at Japan. Ropes, glasses, stockings, wax, torture, saran wrap, medical and it goes on and on. And apparently diapers. So what is it that makes these things a turn on? I suppose power, the thrill of doing something taboo, something that is just downright sexy but becomes an obsession...hmmm

I think some of my interest has to do with having no control at all. And, truthfully, I get some amount of pleasure from pain. Primarily, though, I think it has to do with mental manipulations. I once read an account of a Dom/Sub who made an interrogation scene. For some reason as I sat there reading about how the sub’s mind was being so messed with and so frightened and I became so turned on. But more so because of the dom position. Perhaps I have a dark to desire to be dominant that I have not really acted on.

Though I am bi, I get that desire to dominate much more with men. Can we say strap on? I would much rather be the submissive with a woman. Then again, I obviously enjoy just about anything. I suppose this is why I don’t have any one fetish. Some of them I don’t understand but I do respect where they are coming from. But I wish I had a fetish to call my own.

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Hiya Luka! I’m sure you remember me from the old shoutbox back in December/January. Been a while, but I’m back, hopefully for good this time.

Two things no one should be without are reusable shopping bags (the norm here in Australia) and a really bright LED flashlight. This has been one of the most useful things I’ve brought around the world with me.

I’m doing the FFAF thing and wanted to use your suggestions for a post, but I’m just not musically inclined.  I listen to country radio when I am sewing, so I guess the song I listen to the most right now is Ba Donk a Donk (not sure if that is spelled right).  I’m just so thrilled to tell you that my most listened to song is about a woman’s ass.  Makes me feel so sophisticated and feministic (can I make words up here?). 

I’ve also been listening to a lot of classical music, mainly because they are supposed to make babies smarter. I don’t know if that’s true or not.  All I know is that the classical music puts me to sleep, which is not such a good thing when I’m supposed to be watching the baby.  Why doesn’t the music put him to sleep instead?  Have you ever seen one of those Baby Einstein videos?  I’m new to this baby thing so had never seen one, but was shocked to see my kid get totally into it.  It’s just classical music playing with a bunch of colorful toys in the background. It is mesmorizing to babies.  Weirdness.  I’d like to be the one who figured that out. That person is probably rolling in the dough right now.

Carrie from The Queen of Rambles

I believe that everyone needs the Lord in their lives and shelter. One I really don’t remember living without and the other I spent quite a time without. I was saved at the age of 12. I did not always have shelter. It is really painful to get to where you are finding a piece of plastic and cardboard as shelter from the rain in an obscure area. I hate homelessness. Well, that is my two cents worth. God bless everyone, Teressa

Today is Friday the 31st of March.  It’s the last Friday of the month.  It’s Free for All Friday too.  So, basically, I open my blog up to the general bloggin’ public and let you post.  It’s pretty easy; and usually it’s pretty fun.  Or, at least, I think it is. 

IF YOU ARE A BLEX MEMBER AND YOU LOGIN AND POST - leave your BLEX ID and I’ll send you 25 credits! ;-)

Directions and login links in the extended entry

i am going to give you two scenarios*. once you read them both you must decide which you would rather have.

you must decide*. what will it be?

*Again, but with a twist.

The last couple of nights I’ve had this wickedly vivid dreams. They aren’t scary or anything, just very vivid, and almost lucid to where I can control what is happening in them.  I’ve had trouble getting up the last couple of days too.  While I like the dreams - I feel like I’m sleeping too much. The dreams are too hard to get out of.  The snooze gets pressed over and over and over, so I can see where the dream is going.  I remember big parts of the dreams too, even many hours after I wake up.  Especially the bits with Ted King.  Oh, and the joints rolled for me my Snoop Dog.  Did I mention how fucked up the dreams were?  Cause they SO were.  :-)

I’m gonna give you two three hints for #5. It’s the only trivia question left without identifiers! ;-) Maybe someone will get it now! ;-)

1.  The title of the song is IN the lyrics i first wrote.

2.  I want to turn the whole thing upside down
I’ll find the things they say just can’t be found
I’ll share this love I find with everyone
We’ll sing and dance to Mother Nature’s songs
I don’t want this feeling to go away

3.  this artist just did a lot of the songs for the curious george soundtrack.

Think you can name the Artist and Song title Now?

Upside Down by Jack Johnson. Brad got this one right!