I just cant win with this blog thing. First I try and fix the htaccess myself cause I was just so sick of the spam. I though I’d fixed it. But I blocked nearly everyone. Now I’m trying to fix it a little manually and I’ve blocked real people AND I’ve made the spam just that much worse.  For every ONE real ref hit I get 10 fucking spam ones. It’s enough to make a girl wanna change her URL and start over. Fucking A. I can’t win. I either have so much spam I can’t see straight or I block people who actually DO want to see the site! Gah! On top of all my broken Feeds. The ones that I changed the URL for, and then the ones that went down when I took mysite offline the other day to upgrade it. (Which ALSO didnt help the spam.) I’ve still got some errors on the CP site of my site too. Damnit. I fucking hate this blog right now.

updated to add : I decided to uninstal the referal module.  maybe that will make em stop, at least for a little bit, and then maybe they’ll get the hint and stop forever.  we’ll see.  at least this way ive stopped obsessively checking for more spam.